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"It was about a boss and secretary and she really pulled out the power dynamic." Let's just say that Jessica knew how to pick directors, since 36-year-old Jules is something of an expert on power play: Not only has she been throwing these over the knee (OTK) spanking parties for the past three years but she's also been in a daddy-daughter relationship for the past two.

The woman is an impresario of the spanking world; she carefully screens every party guest (women are approved through e-mail while men must pass muster over the phone), arranges annual spanking events in Atlantic City that draw people from as far away as California and even Europe, and is in the process of expanding her current website with message boards, chat rooms, videos and lists of all the spanking parties going on around the world.

Until the '90s, there wasn't even much of a scene at all.

(There are several different forms of spanking, including disciplinary, role play, playful, sensual and sexual/erotic; at SSNY parties, participants are encouraged to stay away from sexual and erotic play.) Although a bondage community began flourishing in the '80s, spanking isn't really bondage; though, as one spanko told me, "it could be considered sort of like a gateway drug to it." But those gathered at the SSNY party are, for the most part, like Gary: They aren't so much getting off on having their asses slapped as they are fulfilling a need. "If spanking is sexual, it ruins my head space," Jules tells me a few days after the party.

While the spanking network Shadow Lane launched in California in 1986, a woman named Margaret Davis (sometimes known as Ms.

Margaret) says she put spanking on the East Coast map in 1994 when she went to a Eulenspiegel Society party and gave a talk.

"It's like if a woman who had a rape fantasy suddenly had a guy going, ' Are you OK? Sex ruins the fantasy, and if it's not 100 percent not sexual, it feels like incest." (At the same time, Jules admits that she fantasizes about being spanked when she masturbates and that she's gotten wet while being spanked.) Still, people do not, for the most part, have sex at the parties, nor do they tend to pair off and have sex afterward. Time and time again, the spankos I interview tell me they were fascinated with spanking from a young age and thought they were alone with this obsession.

"Yes," I finally say, glancing at the bottles of hand sanitizer in between all the Swedish fish and sandwiches on the refreshment table.

After trying to decide if I should say thank you or glare, I realize that the comment is meant to be neither complimentary nor insulting.

When you're at one of Strictly Spanking New York's bimonthly parties, something like this is merely observational.

(Eulenspiegel is a BDSM group founded in the '70s that is named for a character from German folklore who enjoys discomfort.) "I introduced the idea of spanking as a parental thing -- this notion that I'm only spanking you because I love and care about you," Margaret, who now runs the Spanking Club of New York (SCONY), recalls.

"When I spoke, half the room went nuts and the other half lost interest." The half that went nuts grew into an actual community as the Internet flourished throughout the '90s, and Margaret, who declines to give her age but admits to having a grown son, began throwing parties with her husband.

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